I have always had questions.
When just a tiny tot, I began to ask questions. It was a way for me to understand this giant world I had entered. “Why is the sky blue and why is the grass green?” “Why do I have to tie my shoes?” “Why can’t I ride my bike in the street?” “Why do I have to wear this?”
Little people ask a lot questions. They ask “why?” and “how come?” and “why not?” They ask it to infinity it seems, until mom or dad resorts to those words we promise ourselves we will never say to our children, “Because I said so!”
When I was growing up painfully shy, I was not very adept at social interactions with people other than family. So I read as much as I could to be better at it. I learned from the teen magazine I subscribed to that asking questions is a good way to make conversation.
The magazine told me to ask questions to find out about the other person, that people love to talk about themselves, especially boys, which was of prime interest to me at that age.
I tried it and found it was true. People do like to tell their own stories. Most of the time I didn’t have to say much, just ask the questions.
Through the years, I’ve continue to ask questions not so much because I’m still painfully shy but because I truly want to get to know people. I learn things like where he is from, how many children she has, what line of work he is in, where they go to church, what his hobbies are, and what brings the light to her eyes and her heart.
As a result of asking so many questions, I’ve become a pretty good listener.
I’ve been asking a lot of questions lately. Sweet William and I have been walking a long stretch of road that has brought many questions to my mind.
A lot of “whys” have sliped into my prayers. A lot of “how longs” and “how is this going to turn out for good and for Your glory, Lord?” I just want to understand the purpose of it all. If I just knew the reasons, then maybe I could endure it with more patience and grace.
So I’m listening.
But I’m not getting many answers, as least not the ones I long to hear.
My questions are mostly met with silence.
When I was a child I remember someone saying “You should never question God!” It was a rather fearful-sounding admonition.
Yet when I read the Bible, I find there were quite a few people asking questions of God.
The Psalms are full of questions like “How long O Lord?” (6:3) and “Will you forget me for ever?” (13:1) and “Why, O Lord, do you reject me and hide Your face from me?” (88:14)
Moses asked God, “Why have you brought this trouble on your servant? What have I done to displease You . . .?” (Numbers 11:11)
Job asked a lot of questions. He didn’t get the answers he wanted either.
I am glad that God is patient with me and my questions. I don’t need to be afraid to cry out my pain and frustration in the safe haven of His tender mercies.
I’ve come to understand that while I can ask all l I want, it doesn’t mean I will get an answer when or how I would like it.
The bottom line is, God is God and He answers to no one.
God is in no way obligated to explain Himself to me or anyone else. His plan is from eternity to eternity, a time line I will never fathom. His thought process is not something my pea-brain can grasp. His ways are beyond figuring out.
All my questions spiral down to one. That question is “Who?”
Who is like the Lord God?
Who can set the universe in order? Who causes the wind to blow, the seas to roar, the moon to shine? Who makes a baby smile, a caterpillar turn into a butterfly, a rose to smell so sweet? Who loved me so much that He was willing to die rather than let me go?
Who can take the darkest night and shine His glory in the middle of it?
Though I may not be able to make sense of the present, some things become quite clear. God’s love for me is demonstrated in ways I count daily. Though His voice may be silent, I see His hand of grace in so many things.
Can I trust a God who does not answer my questions but instead asks me to be still and to know Him in joys yet to be discovered? Can I trust His promise that all things will work together for my good whether is seems like it now or not? Can I believe that this present pain will produce future glory?
My answer to that question is “Yes!” No other answer will do.
Dear reader, thank you for returning after such a long time of me being away from Strengthen by Grace. Two months of intense care-giving to Sweet William has left me with little time and fewer words. By God’s grace, we will meet more frequently in days to come.